8-18-2017
I'm blocking yet another person here; and since Prosebox deletes all comments between both parties when you do, and since I put a lot of energy into typing the last thing she'll see from me, I'm copy-and-pasting it here.
Backstory: Someone probably has a bit of autism, and if they do, I very much sympathize. The person I typed this for, on the other hand, does not.
(On the off chance this gets reported and subsequently deleted; like everything else I post, it's being copied to Blogger. I'll put it on Facebook too, just to be thorough.)
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You opened with the fact that you're the mother of an aspie, and attempted to use that as a badge of authority to insult me for *defending* one. - You can't be much of a *mother* if you think that title gives you the right to criticize and condemn people with the same neurodevelopmental disorder as your son.
Despite raising one, you have surprisingly little understanding of the disorder. I feel bad for your son, having such a mother; who is so narcissistic that she uses her experience raising him to justify insulting others like him.
If you had a kid with spina bifida, would you go around telling other people with spina bifida to "make more of an effort"? Like maybe if they just tried hard enough, they could get out of those wheelchairs and walk? - Autism is invisible, and since you're apparently too stupid to recognize that things you can't see *do* exist; you think that a person can overcome it with "effort".
*HOW ABOUT YOU MAKE MORE OF AN EFFORT TO OVERCOME YOUR NARCISSISTIC EGOMANIA?* Go see a psychiatrist. And take that poor son of yours with you, because he needs it for all you put him through.
*He is making an effort*. He took the `redacted for privacy sake` that he oviously didn't want and pretended to care. He was upset that she `redacted for privacy sake` because he thought she might be looking to replace him. If he didn't "care" neither of those things would've happened. The fact that you don't recognize his expressions of caring doesn't mean that he needs to "make more of an effort. *It means that you're such an idiot that you raised an aspie, and in all those years, FAILED to learn how we show affection and appreciation* We cannot read the unspoken language that you're expecting him to fall in line with, no matter how much "effort" we make, and the fact that you think we *can*, even after raising one of us, only exemplifies just how *DENSE* you are.
Which means that you either can't, or refuse to see the "effort" that your son makes, too. The poor guy must live in constant frustration and self-hate, trying to please someone so blind and stupid. Hopefully he'll outlive you by enough decades that he'll be able to recover from your psychological abuse, after you've been in the ground a few years.
Maybe you're just being willfully obstinate in defense of your personal feelings, because the facts don't support your emotions. I suspect both.
Neurotypicals ruin their lives over their "feelings", only accepting the parts of reality that support them. That's why politics is corrupt and pointless, wars wlll never stop, the environment will never be repaired, and religions will never coexist peacefully. You people choose what makes you *feel good*, not what *makes sense*.
If a fact goes against an opinion you already have, you just choose to ignore it. *Just like you're doing, right now.*
If you respond to this, I won't even read it. If this were facebook, I'd block you right now; but here all exchanged comments disappear when you do, so I'll wait until you've had time to read this. - But I'm not reading anything else you type, because you're self deluded, and arguing with someone who rejects any reality that contradicts their feelings is pointless. I will literally hold one hand partially over the screen, while I scroll down to block you; because no thought you could possibly have is worth giving even two seconds time in my brain.
*I have better things to do*. Like enjoying the fact that all of *my* family is hundreds of miles away, and appreciating the fact that the only person *I* have to please is almost as autistic as I am.
I hope your son finds a similar situation.
Backstory: Someone probably has a bit of autism, and if they do, I very much sympathize. The person I typed this for, on the other hand, does not.
(On the off chance this gets reported and subsequently deleted; like everything else I post, it's being copied to Blogger. I'll put it on Facebook too, just to be thorough.)
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You opened with the fact that you're the mother of an aspie, and attempted to use that as a badge of authority to insult me for *defending* one. - You can't be much of a *mother* if you think that title gives you the right to criticize and condemn people with the same neurodevelopmental disorder as your son.
Despite raising one, you have surprisingly little understanding of the disorder. I feel bad for your son, having such a mother; who is so narcissistic that she uses her experience raising him to justify insulting others like him.
If you had a kid with spina bifida, would you go around telling other people with spina bifida to "make more of an effort"? Like maybe if they just tried hard enough, they could get out of those wheelchairs and walk? - Autism is invisible, and since you're apparently too stupid to recognize that things you can't see *do* exist; you think that a person can overcome it with "effort".
*HOW ABOUT YOU MAKE MORE OF AN EFFORT TO OVERCOME YOUR NARCISSISTIC EGOMANIA?* Go see a psychiatrist. And take that poor son of yours with you, because he needs it for all you put him through.
*He is making an effort*. He took the `redacted for privacy sake` that he oviously didn't want and pretended to care. He was upset that she `redacted for privacy sake` because he thought she might be looking to replace him. If he didn't "care" neither of those things would've happened. The fact that you don't recognize his expressions of caring doesn't mean that he needs to "make more of an effort. *It means that you're such an idiot that you raised an aspie, and in all those years, FAILED to learn how we show affection and appreciation* We cannot read the unspoken language that you're expecting him to fall in line with, no matter how much "effort" we make, and the fact that you think we *can*, even after raising one of us, only exemplifies just how *DENSE* you are.
Which means that you either can't, or refuse to see the "effort" that your son makes, too. The poor guy must live in constant frustration and self-hate, trying to please someone so blind and stupid. Hopefully he'll outlive you by enough decades that he'll be able to recover from your psychological abuse, after you've been in the ground a few years.
Maybe you're just being willfully obstinate in defense of your personal feelings, because the facts don't support your emotions. I suspect both.
Neurotypicals ruin their lives over their "feelings", only accepting the parts of reality that support them. That's why politics is corrupt and pointless, wars wlll never stop, the environment will never be repaired, and religions will never coexist peacefully. You people choose what makes you *feel good*, not what *makes sense*.
If a fact goes against an opinion you already have, you just choose to ignore it. *Just like you're doing, right now.*
If you respond to this, I won't even read it. If this were facebook, I'd block you right now; but here all exchanged comments disappear when you do, so I'll wait until you've had time to read this. - But I'm not reading anything else you type, because you're self deluded, and arguing with someone who rejects any reality that contradicts their feelings is pointless. I will literally hold one hand partially over the screen, while I scroll down to block you; because no thought you could possibly have is worth giving even two seconds time in my brain.
*I have better things to do*. Like enjoying the fact that all of *my* family is hundreds of miles away, and appreciating the fact that the only person *I* have to please is almost as autistic as I am.
I hope your son finds a similar situation.
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